You started the business together. Equal partners, complementary skills, shared vision. You built something real. But now the partnership isn't working. Maybe you disagree on growth strategy. Maybe one partner wants to sell and the other wants to keep building. Maybe work ethic has diverged, with one partner all-in and the other checked out. Or maybe you just can't stand being in the same room anymore.
Partner conflict destroys business value fast. Customers sense the tension. Employees take sides. Strategic decisions stall because you can't agree. Meanwhile, you're both trapped. The business is your livelihood. You can't just walk away. But you can't keep working together either.
The path forward isn't clear. Does one partner buy out the other? Do you both sell to a third party? Do you split the business? And the hardest question: what's the business actually worth when the partnership that built it is falling apart? Partner exit planning requires navigating business valuation, legal complexity, emotional conflict, and operational continuity all at once.
Valuation disagreements in partner conflicts are driven by whose money is at stake. The partner buying thinks the business is worth less. The partner selling thinks it's worth more. Both have legitimate claims, and neither is being dishonest. They're just looking at the same business through different lenses. Without an objective framework, these disagreements spiral into legal battles that consume the very value they're fighting over.
Operational chaos accelerates while conflict continues. Decisions stall because partners can't agree on direction. Hiring freezes. Investment stops. Employees start sensing the tension and the best ones, the ones with options, begin quietly exploring other opportunities. Customers pick up on the dysfunction and start diversifying their vendor relationships. Every month the conflict continues, the business loses value that neither partner will recover.
Most partnerships have a buy-sell agreement sitting in a drawer somewhere, drafted when the business was young and the partnership was working. It probably hasn't been updated since. The valuation formula it contains may no longer reflect reality. The funding mechanisms it describes may not be feasible. And the dispute resolution procedures it outlines may be inadequate for the level of conflict you're dealing with. It's better than nothing, but barely.
Each partner genuinely believes they contribute more than the other. Partner A thinks the business runs on relationships and sales, which is their domain. Partner B thinks the business runs on operations and delivery, which is theirs. They're both right, which is why the business worked when they were aligned. Now that they're not, each one views the other as expendable while considering themselves essential. This asymmetric perception makes fair valuation nearly impossible without external data.
The prisoner's dilemma runs underneath everything. Both partners are better off with an amicable resolution. But neither wants to appear weak or accept less than they deserve. The result is a standoff that destroys value for both of them while enriching their attorneys. Breaking that dynamic requires introducing objective information that both sides can accept as legitimate.
The Value Builder Assessment matters more in partner conflict than in any other exit scenario. It provides objective, third-party data on what actually drives value in the business. When partners are arguing opinions, nobody wins. Documented scores across 8 Drivers create a shared baseline that both sides can reference. It's not perfect, but it's far better than "I think" versus "I think."
Hub and Spoke becomes the critical question: which partner is the hub? If Partner A is the face to customers and Partner B handles operations, losing Partner A tanks customer relationships and business development. That impacts buyout pricing in a very real way. Partner B can't justify paying full market value for a business that loses 40% of its revenue when Partner A walks out the door. This isn't a negotiation tactic. It's operational reality that any business appraiser will identify.
Financial Performance provides a clean baseline. What's the actual EBITDA? Industry multiples give you a valuation range, but partnership conflict adds a discount because instability represents risk. A business with obvious partnership dysfunction sells for 20 to 30 percent less than a stable comparable. Both partners need to understand this because their conflict is literally costing them money every day it continues.
There are three genuine resolution paths. First, one partner buys out the other, with a structured buyout over time if capital is limited. Second, both partners sell to a third party and split the proceeds so both can exit cleanly. Third, the business gets split, with each partner taking product lines, customers, or divisions. This last option only works when the business is genuinely divisible, which is less common than people think.
The Love It or List It framework applies to each partner individually. Partner A might want to List It, cash out and move on. Partner B might want to Love It, buy Partner A out and keep running the business. That asymmetry is actually easier to resolve than situations where both partners want to keep the business. When one wants out and one wants to stay, you have a natural buyer and seller. The only question is price and terms.
The worst case is when both partners want out but the business won't sell at an acceptable price because partnership conflict has damaged operations. Then you're stuck trying to repair enough value to make an exit viable, which requires the partners to cooperate just long enough to stabilize and sell, which is the thing they're unable to do. Breaking that deadlock usually requires a third party managing the process while the partners stay out of each other's way.
If the split is amicable, expect 6 to 12 months for buyout structure, valuation, legal documentation, and transition. This is the best-case scenario where both partners agree on the general direction and are willing to work through details constructively.
If the split is contentious, 12 to 24 months is more realistic, including legal proceedings, valuation disputes, and operational separation. During this period, the business continues to lose value because the conflict prevents good decision-making and creates uncertainty for everyone involved.
If the dissolution ends up court-ordered, you're looking at 18 to 36 months of value destruction while attorneys fight. Most of the sale proceeds go to legal fees, and what's left gets split between partners who are now far worse off than if they'd resolved things privately.
The earlier you bring in an objective third party, whether that's an exit planner, a business appraiser, or a mediator, the faster and cleaner the resolution. Waiting until you're in legal battle means attorneys control the timeline and the bill.
Quick resolution requires: agreed valuation methodology, realistic expectations on both sides, a structured payment plan if the buyer lacks capital, and a transition plan that maintains business value. Slow resolution happens when partners won't compromise, when valuation disagreement exceeds 30%, when neither partner can afford a buyout, or when operational roles are too intertwined to separate cleanly.
We start neutral. The Reality Check happens with both partners, separately if needed. What does each partner actually want? Buy the other out? Sell together? Walk away entirely? What can each afford? These conversations are often more honest one-on-one because partners stop posturing when the other person isn't in the room.
The Value Builder Assessment creates the objective baseline. This isn't Partner A's opinion versus Partner B's opinion. It's a third-party scoring system used across thousands of businesses. Here's where you score. Here's what comparable businesses sell for. Here's what the 8 Drivers tell us about value with both partners present versus one partner leaving. The data doesn't take sides.
We model every realistic scenario. Partner A buys Partner B: what's the required payment, can Partner A afford it, how does the business perform without Partner B? Partner B buys Partner A: same questions. Both sell to a third party: what's the market value, what's the timeline, how do proceeds split? Business split: can it actually be divided across locations, product lines, or customer bases? Each scenario gets realistic financial modeling with actual numbers, not theoretical projections.
We identify which scenario maximizes value for both parties. Sometimes it's a buyout. Sometimes it's a joint sale. Sometimes it's "keep working together for 18 months while we fix value gaps, then revisit the conversation from a position of strength." That last option is more common than people expect, because improving the business together often reduces the conflict that was causing problems in the first place.
We don't do legal work or mediation. We provide the business and financial reality that informs legal negotiations. Your attorneys handle the partnership dissolution. We handle making sure there's actual value left after the split. Most partner conflicts come down to this: both partners want a fair outcome, but neither trusts the other's definition of "fair." Objective data creates a shared definition that both sides can accept.
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Depends on whether the disagreement is fundamental or fixable. If partners want different things, one wants growth and the other wants a lifestyle business, that's probably not fixable. If partners want the same outcome but disagree on tactics, that's potentially workable. We help you diagnose which category you're in. Sometimes a 90-day trial separation where you split responsibilities completely and see if you can function independently clarifies whether dissolution is truly necessary.
Use objective methodology. Value Builder Assessment, industry comps, and a business appraiser. If partners still disagree after objective valuation, the legal buy-sell agreement, if you have one, should specify a resolution mechanism. If not, you're heading to court or forced to compromise. Objective data usually gets you within 10 to 15 percent of agreement. The final gap gets split or negotiated.
Structured buyout over time. Seller financing where the buying partner pays from business cash flow. Typical structure is 20 to 30 percent down with the rest paid over 3 to 5 years. The seller takes risk that the business performs well enough to support payments. If the business can't generate cash flow to buy out a departing partner, neither partner can afford solo ownership and both need to sell to a third party.
If the business is divisible, yes. Multiple locations means each partner takes locations. Distinct product lines means each takes products. Separable customer bases means you split customers. This works for about 20 percent of partnership conflicts. Most businesses aren't cleanly divisible. Trying to split an indivisible business creates two weak businesses instead of one strong one.
Repair what you can, then exit. Focus on operational stability, customer reassurance, and employee retention. You may not get peak value, but salvaging 70 percent is better than letting conflict drive value to zero. Sometimes the best outcome is straightforward: stop fighting, stabilize the business, sell together, split proceeds, and move on.
Partner conflict doesn't respect geography. Whether your business is in Overland Park, Leawood, Olathe, Lenexa, Shawnee, Prairie Village, Lee's Summit, Blue Springs, Liberty, Gladstone, Independence, Parkville, Brookside, Waldo, or the Plaza, partnership dissolution requires objective valuation, realistic scenarios, and structured resolution that preserves value for both parties.